10 Sex Positions for Gay Men and MLM Relationships

by Hannah Lovegrove

on Apr 25, 2022

Looking for a few new ways to spice up your bedroom play? Check out our top 10 gay sex positions for MLM relationships.


When it comes to quick and easy ways to shake things up between the sheets, there’s nothing quite like adding a few fresh moves to your repertoire.

We’ve done the hard work for you, meaning you can spend less time researching the best gay sex positions out there and put in more effort behind closed doors. So if you and your boo are both packing peckers, saddle up - we’ve put together a list of the top 10 sex positions for gay men and MLM relationships.

Disclaimer: Before we get down to business, if you’re a regular at door No.2 then a good quality anal lube is an absolute must. Unlike other body parts, the patootie isn’t self-lubricating, so a specialty anal lube is essential to maximise pleasure and minimise discomfort.

As an added bonus, we’ve also suggested a few naughty toys that’ll help to make each of these sex positions even more explosive.

1. The Door Jammer

A still graphic of two individuals performing the Door Jammer gay sex position

If you’ve ever fancied yourself as a bit of an acrobat, try your hand at trapeze while you go at it with the Door Jammer - just make sure you’ve got a sex swing on hand for this one.

How: The receiving partner positions themselves in the swing while the other stands in between their legs with their feet firmly on the floor. The giving partner can grip the receiving partner by their waist or thighs for support while controlling the

angle, depth and pace of penetration.

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2. Looking Glass

A still graphic of two individuals performing the Looking Glass gay sex position

Not all gay sex positions need to involve spelunking. Dial-up the intimacy with this mutual mazz possie.

How: Both partners sit facing each other with their legs bent in a straddling position. Make sure you’re close enough to entwine your legs but keep enough distance so that you can watch each other stroke the magic lamp.

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3. Abracadabra

A still graphic of two individuals performing the Abracadabra gay sex position

One of the best gay anal sex positions, the abracadabra is ideal if you’re a fan of getting in deep while still maintaining eye contact.

How: The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs raised and spread. The giving partner kneels with their knees positioned on either side of the receiving partner's hips and helps to support their raised legs by gripping their ankles in the air.

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4. Trick or(al) Treat

A still graphic of two individuals performing the Trick or(al) Treat gay sex position

Upgrade your 69 with this exciting new possie. This position requires a fair amount of strength on both parties' sides, so make sure you’re up for it before giving it a crack.

How: Start with one partner in a seated position as the other mounts them and swivels their body upside down with their crotch in their partner’s face and their legs clasped around their neck to hold them in place. The climbing partner positions their face at their partner's crotch and

wraps their arms around their partner's waist. Once they’re securely in place, the seated partner can stand up so you can both lick each other’s lollipops.

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5. Hitch a Ride

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The name says it all. This incredible riding sex position allows for the receiving partner to take full control.

How: The giving partner lies on their back while the receiving partner straddles them with their back to them and their feet planted on a surface next to the giving partner's legs, allowing them to bounce, grind and gyrate until ecstatic bliss.

Add: Have a play with sensory deprivation by adding a

blindfold like the Bondage Boutique Soft Blindfold to enhance the experience and add a side of BDSM play while you’re at it.

6. Yogi

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Hit that sweet P-spot with one of the best gay anal sex positions.

How: The receiving partner lies on their back, with their shoulders planted on the floor, knees bent, hips raised and feet wide enough to fit the giving partner. The giving partner kneels in between their partner's knees while supporting their hips for a bit of you know what.

Add: This possie requires a bit of core and leg strength on the receiving partner's side, so to

make things a little easier try a position enhancer like the DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge, which will help to support the back.

7. Standoff

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The perfect gay sex position for a quickie. Take your horizontal refreshment and make it vertical with the Standoff.

How: The receiving partner stands and supports themselves by leaning on a waist-height piece of furniture that’s sturdy enough to support their weight. The giving partner stands behind them, holding their beau’s waist to guide them with every thrust.

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8. Heart to Heart

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Like missionary, butt better (pun intended). Enjoy an intimate connection while hitting the sweet spots with the Heart to Heart.

How: The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs spread wide enough to welcome the giving partner. The giving partner lies on top and positions themselves in between the receiving partner's legs for a little bit of what you fancy.

Add: Explore some light bondage

with a pair of wrist restraints like the Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints.

9. Sofa Surfer

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Another excellent MLM sex position, surf the deep waves of pleasure until you hit the P-spot with the Sofa Surfer. Cowabunga indeed.

How: The receiving partner lies along the couch, positioning their hips up on the armrest so they’re raised with their legs in the air. The giving partner stands in front of the receiving partner and wraps their arms around their legs to support them against their body.

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10. Double Duty

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Reporting for booty. Get between the cheeks and worship your lover’s rim as you take on Double Duty.

How: The receiving partner kneels down and leans forward to rest the top half of their body on the ground while lifting their bot bot in the air for easy access. The giving partner kneels behind them holding onto their hips to manoeuvre them into the perfect rimming possie.

Add: Switch between mouth

Want more?

Read our blog on Couples Sex Toys for Gay Men: The Best Sex Toys for MLM Relationships or visit the Lovehoney LGBTQ+ page for LGBTQ+ toys and more.

Happy sexing!

Hannah Lovegrove

Written by Hannah Lovegrove.

Originally published on Apr 25, 2022. Updated on Apr 25, 2022