LGBTQ+

Becoming Oscar was a confusing journey. It was early 2000’s. I didn’t know about transgender people beyond the tabloid’s theories about celebrities being “secret” trans women. After high school, I’d realise I was Oscar. I’d finally be me, ready to face the world, but left to figure it out all on my own.

Sex toys aren’t always specifically designed with gender non-conforming people in mind. With the majority of sex toys seemingly marketed for a cisgendered audience, it can be challenging to find one that works just as well if you’re non-binary or trans. We’ve rounded up some of our best gender-affirming toys so that everyone can enjoy what’s on offer.

This week Violet is joined by comedian, Sarah Keyworth; creator of the incredible BBC radio series; Are You A Boy Or A Girl?, and they chat candidly about gender expression in the bedroom.

Lingerie has the ability to make us feel beautiful, powerful and, of course, very sexy. It’s incredible what a piece of well-placed lace can do for our confidence, not to mention our sex lives. At Lovehoney we believe that every single person deserves to feel desirable.

Muffing describes the act of stimulating your inguinal canals, either during masturbation or with a partner. If you're more familiar with the canals of Venice than the inguinal variety, don't despair, we're going to tell you how to find these hidden marvels.