1. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women 2nd Ed by Tristan Taormino

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    1. Product Description

      The first self-help guide to anal sex for women, this book offers comprehensive information on all aspects of anal eroticism and health for all women: heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual who want to learn how to enjoy anal sex.

      This paperback anal sex guide aims to dispel myths, educate the reader and help them on the pathway to anal pleasure in 19 chapters:

      - Beyond Our Bodies: Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Anal Eroticism

      - Preparing the Ass for Pleasure

      - Enemas

      - Safer Sex

      - Lubricants

      - Anal Sex Toys

      - Doing It for Yourself: Anal Masturbation

      - Let Your Tongue Do the Walking: Analingus

      - Anal Penetration

      - Anal Pleasure for Men

      - BDSM and Anal Play

      - Butt Bondage: Long-Term Butt Plug Wear

      - The Art of Anal Fisting

      - Troubleshooting: Common Issues and Problems

      - Anal Health, Anal Ailments, and STDs

      - The Ultimate Frontier

      - Resource Guide

      Key Features:

      • Guide to anal sex for women
      • 19 chapters filled with educational tips
      • Suitable for heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual women
      • Easy-to-digest information and illustrations
      • Ideal for both new and experienced anal play fans

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    1. Customer Reviews

      The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women 2nd Ed by Tristan Taormino 12 4.5 out of 5 stars 4.5 out of 5

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    1. High quality advice for anal sex

      Reviewed: 27 February 2020 by Adam'n'Kirsty, a Straight Engaged Male

      As a man I read this book even though it is anal sex for women as there isn't any decent advice on anal sex out there.

      Once I read this book I now feel like I truly know how to pleasure my other half's back passage without causing any pain or harm.

      So I would advise anyone, no matter how experienced you are to anal sex, to read this book as I can tell you that I will teach your either something new or let you know where you are going wrong.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      My other half now lets me experiment with her ass.
      Nothing. It was well written and a good read.
      Bottom line
      Great advice for first-timers and experienced people alike.
    3. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Butt gripping read

      Reviewed: 8 February 2020 by BedBox99, a Bisexual Single Female

      I bought this book in my last order because friends had told me how uncomfortable their experiences were, but were to nervous to go looking for advise. I wanted to educate myself, so I could help!

      This book has not let me down.

      I’ve not finished it yet, but I’ve learnt loads. It’s give you empowerment and support in all the areas it covers from cleaning to safety to toys, fingers and more!

      Two thumbs up.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      The illustrations helped, and the way Tristan talks so confidently.
      Nothing, I think it’s great!
      Bottom line
      Great read!
    3. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Ultimate guide for the curious

      Reviewed: 13 June 2019 by Knottydevil, a Straight Married Male

      I read this book after my wife mentioned she’d thought about trying anal play. I had previously thought this was off the cards, but after a little practice we soon discovered it’s one of her favourite forms of play!

      This great book covers all the bases in addresses issues of safety, anatomy, warming up, lube, toys, allowing your body to get relaxed and enjoy the sensations, and is full of great little anecdotes about the author’s experiences, and conversations with others. This book has seriously opened up a whole new world of play for us, as well as challenging some of our preconceptions.

      I found it enlightening to read a book on anal play centred on a woman’s perspective, and giving focus to desires and psychological needs. Having never been a woman, this helped put bum play in perspective for me. I’m sure it’s made it a lot more fun for my wife too...

      In all seriousness, anyone with a butt can learn from this book!

      I highly recommend reading this. I found it fun to read and it gave me real confidence to try something new and unexpected.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Well written, informative, body positive, and myth-busting.
      Hand drawn imagery is not the best, but still fun though.
      Bottom line
      Curious to try out or improve anal play? This book tells all...
    3. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Brilliant myth-busting guide

      Reviewed: 11 October 2014 by SR36, a Straight Single Female

      First off - I'm fairly new to anal sex. That is, I tried it several times in the past with various partners, but never got further than pain and frustration, so I let it go. Recently, however, I had the good fortune to try it with someone who very much knew what he was doing, and so I found it to be a very pleasurable experience. Since then, and much to my surprise, my interest has grown dramatically and I’ve started to experiment with anal toys.

      I decided to buy this book to further my education and to ensure that I knew what I was doing with my new purchases, and I’m so glad I did. The book is split into 19 chapters, covering subjects from anal sex myths and anal anatomy, to the use of anal sex toys, safer anal sex, anal pleasure for men and BDSM and anal play, and a whole lot more!

      The writing style is friendly and easy to follow, there are plenty of diagrams to help with the author’s explanations and I particularly like the “Ask the Anal Advisor” sidebars that provide examples and/or questions asked by real people.

      This book is so incredibly informative and has definitely changed my opinion on a lot of aspects of anal sex. I am far more open to trying new things now, have got over my fear of the “dirtiness” (actual, not mental-because I like that!) of it, and have a much more relaxed attitude to the whole thing, which can only serve to make anal sex better for me in the future. Forgive the pun but this book, in conjunction with some beginners toys, has helped to open up a whole new area in sex, and one that I never thought interested me.

      If you’re new to anal and are interested in educating yourself, have a partner who wants to give it a try but is worried about certain aspects of it, or just want to understand more about the delights of anal pleasure, then this is the book for you. It’s a fantastically informative read and worth every penny.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Everything - writing style, topics covered, diagrams, real life stories.
      Absolutely nothing.
      Bottom line
      A brilliant and highly-recommended guide to anyone interested in anal sex.
    3. 18 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Perfect for the inexperienced as well as the experienced

      Reviewed: 12 September 2014 by englishrose, a Bisexual Single Female

      I have this as an ebook, so I can’t comment on the print version in terms of the feel and weight of pages: however, that aside, the contents are the same, according to the publisher - and that’s why you’re really reading this review, right?

      This is a brilliant book. I bought it to educate myself further, and get some new ideas, but it would also be great for someone who’s just curious about anal sex. It’s full of straightforward, no-nonsense advice, and there’s nothing leery or cringey about the wording - and no irritating coyness either.

      There’s facts throughout, as well as hints and tips, and good ideas for positions, as well as trouble-shooting too. This is everything a self-help book should be - reassuring without being patronising, and suitable for every level of anal adventurer.

      One of the reasons I bought it as an e-book was so that, if I wanted to, I could read it in public, and have it in my home without having to hide it behind something else on the bookshelf. However, I began reading it initially on a long plane journey: I hadn’t anticipated that I would still be able to see very detailed pictures on my e-reader - and that so would the man sitting next to me!

      You’re probably not going to read the print version on a plane (though doing so does get you men’s phone numbers...) unless you’ve got a huge amount of confidence, but do be aware that this is a no-holds barred guide!

      This dispels a lot of the negative myths surrounding anal sex, and provides a lot of useful information without being in any way sleazy. I’d recommend this to anal virgins looking for more information, and also to anal experts, looking to shake up their practice. There really is something here for everyone.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      No-nonsense and informative, without a hint of a cringe.
      Bottom line
      Experienced? Inexperienced? Unsure? Never mind: just buy it - you'll have no regrets!
    3. 15 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes

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