Which Toy Feels Most Like Oral Sex?

by Guest

on Aug 12, 2020

Like most of you, I've had more time at home than I'm used to. There are fewer things keeping me occupied, and I'm having to get more and more creative as time goes on while in lockdown.

So, a recent activity has been ranking my sex toys and likening them to actual sex. Now, I'm not the kind of sex toy lover who requires my toys to feel like the real thing. So, this was an interesting little activity for me.

I sent the penis toys to a friend to try out for me and give me feedback.

Womanizer Starlet Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

Womanizer Starlet Clitoral Stimulator

This itty-bitty delight was the perfect way to test the waters when it comes to suction stimulators.

Now, when I say 'itty-bitty', I absolutely mean it – it fits perfectly in my palm. This little thing is tiny but packs an absolute punch with 4 intensity settings. I usually prefer a few more settings to enhance the build-up period, but this baby was so powerful that it did the job quite nicely regardless!

The suction feels amazing with a bit of water-based lube on the silicone rim of the toy (i.e. the bit that sucks) and I would say is pretty close to how oral sex sometimes feels.

Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator

Red Hot Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator

This flaming hot charmer was the toy I thought would feel the least like oral sex. I was wrong. The flickering tip of the vibe is a little too powerful for me, and I only tend to use the tip right at the peak of my session.

However, the shape and material of this toy are truly where it's at when it comes to oral sex simulation. The silicone is so smooth, and the body of the toy feels a lot like the shape of a tongue.

It feels amazing to switch on the vibrations and rub the body of the toy on the vulva and clitoris.

A little splash of water-based lube really enhances this sensation, and for me this toy takes the cake when it comes to oral-sex-like sensations. We have a winner!

BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker

BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker

This masturbation sleeve is open at both ends to use during a solo session or to complement partnered play.

The skin-like texture of the toy creates the smooth sensation that feels like oral sex, especially when used with a generous amount of warming lube. The swirling ribbed texture gives consistent stimulation with every stroke.

However, while the sleeve being open at both ends makes the toy more versatile, it means that the suction sensation that usually accompanies oral sex is non-existent.

It doesn't level up to the intensity of oral sex as much as I thought it would, but it is a great addition to the bedroom nonetheless.

TENGA Cool Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup

TENGA Cool Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup

This toy was a little too tight for me at first, but adding extra lube helped. It's single use, but I wanted to give it a couple of goes so I decided to use it twice with a condom on, and a third and final time without a condom.

I don't mind the prep and cleaning of reusable Fleshlights and strokers, so something that has a longer usage life will probably be my next purchase. The air hole control was a cool feature, and I played around with how the suction felt.

The suction sensation is what made the Tenga feel more like oral sex than the Blowyo for me. So, if you're looking for a toy that feels like oral sex, go for something with a closed end. Winner number 2!

Eleni is a health communications student from Sydney. Her favourite topics to communicate are sexual health, gender and sexuality; she spends her time smashing taboo topics everywhere she goes.


Written by Guest.

Originally published on Aug 12, 2020. Updated on Jan 14, 2021