10 Best Sexy Gifts For Her

by Lovehoney

on Nov 29, 2021

Give the gift of pleasure with a naughty toy!

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Chocolate and flowers are great, but when you’re looking for the best gift for your girlfriend, your bestie, or you’re even wanting to show yourself a bit of extra love, really show them your appreciation with a little gifty that provides pleasure!

Whether you’re looking for birthday presents for your girlfriend, the best Valentine's gift for her or a simple but sexy gift for your wife, Lovehoney is sure to have something that’ll hit that sweet spot.

From wands to butt plugs, and strap-ons to dildos, we’ve put together our fave sexy gifts for your wife or any lovely lady in your life. Out-of-this world orgasms should be accessible for everyone, so we’ve got the goods to suit all budgets!

Gifting sex toys is great for a bunch of reasons - they can help to spice things up in the bedroom, they’re amazing for assisting vulva-owners reach orgasm and they can also help to improve the Big O when your gal does climax.

Your first time can be a little awkward, and buying a sex toy for someone for the first time is no different. If you’re unsure where to start, then sometimes it can be best to leave the surprise factor out of it and have a straight-up conversation about whether they’re keen to introduce a toy to the bedroom and what they’d like to try. Shopping for a toy together can be a huge turn-on and a super fun part of the process!

If you do want to keep it a surprise, then a great option is to find something that replicates the type of stimulation that they’re into. And if you’re still stuck for ideas, then you’ve come to the perfect place! Here are some of our top toy picks for people with a vulva.

1. Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator


There’s never been a trustier vibe than the rabbit, which is why we rate it as one of the best gifts for your girlfriend, wife, friend or even yourself!

The Greedy Girl is one of the best rabbit vibes going. This buzzing beauty combines the intensity of not just one, but TWO motors to power both the shaft and the external clitoral stimulator to create the most delicious blended orgasms.

With over 36 different stimulation

variations, there’s sure to be something that gets the blood flowing!

Here’s what one of our lovely customers had to say:

"This was my first rabbit vibrator. I absolutely love it. I use it every day, it's that good! I also had my first G-spot orgasm with it!"

2. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator


Spoil your best gal with a range of internal stimulations courtesy of this vibrating love egg. Perfect for use while you’re doing chores around this house, this little vibe takes on a completely new level of naughty sensations when you wear it out and about in public!

Control it yourself using the super convenient remote or hand the power over to your sidekick for a kinky surprise.

Don't take our word for it, check

out what one of our customers thought:

"Easy to use, and I loved the fact that my partner was in control and I didn’t know when he would turn it on or change the vibration."

3. We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Controlled Couple's Vibrator


The Chorus is the perfect vibe for hetero couple’s play! Designed to be worn while getting down and dirty, the internal arm of this vibe hums deliciously against your lover’s G-spot and your joystick while the external arm teases and tickles her precious pearl.

Use it together with the remote control while doing the mattress mambo or tune in with the We-Vibe app for long-distance play.

Enjoy climaxes aplenty with this puppy:

"My partner has forever found it difficult to climax with me inside of her. Well… first time with the Chorus and BINGO! We both enjoyed having a laugh and giggles trying the different modes, and the squeeze control is too good. Highly recommend it!"

4. We-Vibe Tango Lipstick Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator


It might take two to tango when you’re bumping beautifuls, but the We-Vibe Tango was built with solo play in mind!

The perfect pocket vibe for clitoral stimulation, this little beauty makes for the ideal travel companion thanks to its small size.

USB rechargeable and waterproof, the angled tip allows you to target the magic bean with extreme precision.

She may be small, but this itty-bitty clitty vibe sure does pack a punch:

"This thing has the rumbliest vibrations I’ve ever experienced in such a small package. It’s absolutely amazing and I would recommend to everyone."

5. Tracey Cox Supersex Powerful Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator


This trusty rabbit is perfect for anyone who has struggled to find a vibe that fits comfortably around their curves. Thanks to the layer of liquid silicone just underneath the velvety casing, this vibe provides the perfect cushion for the pushin’!

Two points of stimulation via the shaft and clitoral vibe make it ideal for vulva-owners, with the internal and external vibes working hard to help you reach that beautiful, blended peak.

Curved to perfection with petite proportions, this rabbit makes for a wonderful first vibe for beginners.

Our customers adore Tracey Cox's new, marshmallow-soft sex toy range:

"I'm a pretty thin girl and unfortunately wasn't comfortable with some stiffer or harder toys. This one is so soft and squishy (in a good way) and doesn't hurt my pelvic area at all while still being super fun. If you need a toy that's 'padded', this one is for you."

6. Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator


It wouldn’t be a gift guide for vulva-owners without a clitoral stimulation vibe and the collab between Lovehoney and Womanizer make for the perfect pressie!

Clitoral suction stimulators are ideal for those with sensitive lady buttons. Harnessing the power of air, the Womanizer Pro40 uses pulsations, waves and flutters to get you off rather than buzzing vibrations.

Ergonomically designed to fit into

the palm of your hand, simply apply a dab of lube to the tip of this stimulator to create a seal that fits snugly over the juicy jewel.

Our Lovehoney customers can’t get enough:

"First time purchasing a suction toy had the wife squirting in under a minute followed by an almighty orgasm. Would recommend."

7. Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator


This petite wand is small but mighty! Another one for those who enjoy stimulating the hidden bud, the flexible neck and broad head of this wand are ideal for reaching the velvet bean.

With 10 speeds and 7 patterns to choose from, you can tailor-make your orgasm with this nifty vibe! Simply pair with water-based lube for frictionless fun.

You’ll be converted in no time:

"I wasn't really 100% sure about it,

but once I used it... Yep, I'm definitely sure now. I'm in love."

8. Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo 7 Inch


If you’re after something a little less intimidating, opting for a toy that isn’t entirely phallic-shaped and doesn't look like a big old dong can be the way to go. Glass dildos like this beaded beauty can be a fun and different gift idea beyond the usual vibe.

The temperature-responsive material allows for experimentation with warmth or cold, while the tapered tip is perfect for easy insertion. Enjoy additional pleasure thanks to the

ribbed shaft, which is perfectly curved to hit the G-spot or P-spot.

Pair with your fave lube and be on your way:

"This is a game changer. A must-have. Easy to use, feels amazing, and is easy to clean. Highly recommended. 10/10."

9. Lovehoney Rock My World Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)


If you’re still not sure what to get, you might want to take a look at a pack that includes a bit of everything!

This kit includes three toys for external stimulation and three toys for internal stimulation, so there’s plenty to choose from, experiment with, and pair up!

Friends don’t let friends live their lives without good sex toys:

"Bought this for my friend, who was a bit hesitant on the idea of

toys. She loves them now and has decided to buy more of her own. Great beginner kit and awesome for trying something you haven't before."

10. Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant


It’s not quite a sex toy, but a dash of good quality lube sure helps to dial up the intensity and will absolutely complement any kinky toy you gift!

Enjoy less friction and more fun with Lovehoney’s fave water-based lube! As an added bonus, this lube is suitable for use with all sex toy materials.

Don’t just take it from us. This is why it’s a crowd fave:

"Great lube, works well and is

reasonably priced."

The fun doesn’t stop there. Lovehoney is home to a huge range of toy and accessories that will make the perfect sexy gift for your wife, lover or friend. So get shopping and thank us later!


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Originally published on Nov 29, 2021. Updated on Nov 30, 2021