Position of the Week: Fantasy Frolic

Buckle up, buttercup – the ride you’ve been craving is here! Select your favourite faux phallus and let your imagination run wild as you get to know each other...

How?

Choose a sturdy chair to be your personal throne for a scene of pure indulgence. Set a suction-cup dildo firmly in place on the seat, leaving your hands free. Our tip? You’ll need a smooth plastic, leather, or wooden seat for your suction cup to grip onto.

When you’re ready to ride, lube up your dildo, lower yourself onto it, and find your rhythm. Try facing the chair so you can hold onto the back, giving you leverage to grind. Either way, your new throne should support you as you ride.

Why?

This one’s for bringing a little imagination to your solo session. The seated position keeps you grounded while letting your hands roam freely, teasing whatever erogenous zones you please. With the right mood lighting and toys, you can slide right into whichever sexy imagined scenario tickles your curiosity – more tips on that later!

A suction cup dildo secured to a chair lets you control depth, speed, and momentum of penetration – and enjoy the physical qualities of the toy you chose. We love a fantasy dildo here – a tentacled or scaled monster cock really lets you bring your filthy fanfic dreams to life.

Make it even easier

For anyone with mobility concerns or who wants a simpler setup, small adjustments make a big difference. Keep toys, lube, and a small towel within easy reach to avoid unnecessary stretching or strain.

Facing the back of your chair might give you more leverage but, if that’s not comfortable, face forwards near a wall or another piece of furniture that you can lean on.

Add a footstool or some books to raise your feet (and a cushion behind your lower back) to see if that makes the angle of penetration feel more pleasurable. And don’t be shy about all the props! In this fantasy, your comfort is top priority.

Make it even better

Slide deeper into pleasure by layering different sensations. For example, if you’re dreaming up a dragon fantasy, you could light candles all around your room and gaze into the flames – or play with a warming clitoral stimulation toy like the We-Vibe Temp and imagine you’re being lightly toasted by your fiery lover.

Introduce textures like a soft blanket or a silk robe and find an atmospheric playlist for a multisensory experience. Run your nails (or a pinwheel) over your thighs and enjoy the goosepimply feeling of your fantasy lover’s claws on your skin.

Try a dab of tingling or warming lube – start with just a little on your labia or shaft and get used to the intense sensation as you gently rub small circles with your fingers.

Make it even kinkier

It’s officially spooky season, so what better time to indulge your deepest, darkest desires? Add a playful twist to your session by embracing a fantasy persona – a mysterious sea siren or a lustful vampire, perhaps? Whatever works with your dildo of choice.

Spend time dreaming up horny scenarios or reading fantasy erotica before you ride to get that roleplay feeling without needing a partner. Some people find costumes help get them in the zone, but you can raid your wardrobe or just go naked to keep it low maintenance.

And, if you’re feeling a little shy, music can really help get into the right mindset! Try searching “dragon” or “vampire” alongside “fantasy music” and you’ll see there’s a playlist for everything once you start looking...

Not the position for you?

We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.