How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo

Free up your hands and embark on an adventure around your house and beyond with a suction cup dildo.

Suction cup dildos aren’t a one-trick pony. These versatile sex toys can be used in many different ways, locations and scenarios. They also come in all shapes, sizes and types. In fact, we reckon they’re about as far from a one-trick pony as Makybe Diva.

Now, when it comes to using your suction cup dildo, you could just stick it wherever feels good and we’re sure you’ll fare just fine. However, if you’re ready to level-up your dildo play, we’ve got a range of tricks and tips that’ll have you screaming giddyup in no time.

Play-by-Play How To

The list is endless, but we’ve narrowed it down to the absolute best tips and tricks for solo and couples play with a suction cup dildo.

Essentials First: Always Use Lube

It goes without saying that water-based lube will help you on your way to a more slippery, pleasurable encounter with your stuck-tastic friend. Most suction cup dildos are made from materials that are compatible with water-based good stuff, so you’ll never go wrong with your fave water-based lube.

“It slides in very easy with lube and hits the spot with the curve instantly. Teamed up with a clit vibrator, all I can say is it took seconds.” - Gem c

To keep things squeaky clean, we recommend a post-playtime tip-to-sucker wash with a sex toy cleaner, and somewhere safe and dry to store it until its next outing.

Positioned for Pleasure

One of the best things about suction cup dildos is that they can be adapted to suit a multitude of sex positions.

Doggy-style is a favourite with fans of suction cup toys - simply attach it to a wall or headboard and back onto it. Tailor the height to your liking and control the angle, depth and speed at which you enjoy your dildo.

“That cock is so thick that I G-spot orgasmed from a doggy position! Wonderful toy. Worth every penny I spent.” - AuronsBelovedBunny

If you’re up for a workout for your leg muscles (who said exercise was boring?), try sticking your suction dildo to a horizontal surface and squat or sit on it, before bouncing your way to that special place.

Stick it Somewhere: Wet

A sturdy, smooth, flat surface is a must for your suction dildo, and then you're on your way to knocking one right out the park! Wooden or tiled floors or walls are the most tried and trusted options, opening up your play to a number of locations in the house. Kitchen creaming anyone?

“This is our first suction cup toy and has had a trip to the shower almost every day since, by one of us, myself and the wife.” - Trine

The side of a bath means you can straddle the dildo (as you would a partner) by sticking the dildo to the side of the tub and lowering yourself down onto it to ease into your rhythm. You could even keep your new best friend in the bathroom drawer so it’s ready to party whenever you’re feeling sexy in the shower. This is great for those who live in a share house too. No more carting your sex toy from your bedroom to the bathroom and back again. Your suction dildos is already in there waiting for you! Throw on some of your favourite tunes to give yourself a bit of a noise buffer and ride your way to the rainbow.

If the added dimension of warm water running over your body as you pleasure yourself ticks all the boxes, stick your friend to the shower tiles at a height that's right for you and ride away to your heart's content. If the shower head ends up providing extra stimulation, then life just gets better and better.

The toilet seat also gets a firm thumbs up from our community members as it provides a good height and sturdy base for your bouncing endeavours.

Stick it Somewhere: Firm

Chairs have the advantage of giving you something to hold onto while you ride your dildo. Stick your dildo to the seat of the chair and face the back of the chair, using its back for added support and to take the pressure off your legs from doing all the hard work.

“After lying back and using my hand to pound myself with the delectable dong, I tried it stuck to a chair to straddle and stuck to the wall for doggy. Both amazing and the dildo never moved a fraction out of place.” - curvy_kim

If you are fortunate enough to have access to a massage table, they can also make excellent bases for your suction dildo play as they are designed to be able to take the weight of most adults. Just make sure you pop in on its lowest level for safety.

Stick it Somewhere: Reflective

Mirrors provide the perfect surface for attaching your dildo to, and give you the added bonus of a fantastic view. Hello sailor.

“The headboard, a dining room chair, the kitchen work top and most kinky of all, the mirror, are just a few places I have used this! I love this toy, I especially use it when my husband is away as it's so lifelike.” - Horny Hairdresser

Watch yourself ride up and down on your dildo by attaching it to a mirror on the floor. If you have a wall mirror that has a stable mount, try doggy-style with extra visual stimulation (for you and your partner). Mirrors can also be a great option for those whose kinky companion isn’t there in person. If recording a video or doing some R-rated Facetiming with your boo, using a mirror is a great way to transform your home movie into a Spielberg-esque production.

Strap In for a Good Time

Ever-versatile, most suction cup dildos can be teamed with a variety of strap-on harnesses, creating lots of exciting play options for you and your partner.

“I needed a strap-on compatible dildo that wasn't overly realistic, wasn't too thin or small, had a reasonable price tag, and was a realistic (but filling) size. This is the answer.” - PrfsrChaos

Strapping on a dildo leads the way towards vaginal and anal penetration that may have been difficult to achieve without a toy, whether or not you’re a couple that has a naturally-occuring penis. Check out our collection of Strap-On Harnesses and Kits for further inspiration.

Add a Third

If the idea of a threesome gets you hot and flustered but the reality of another person joining you has been poo-pooed by your partner, a suction cup dildo is a great alternative.

“I ordered this for my fiancée to play out our MMF fantasy. It doesn't disappoint. Seeing that slide into her and watching her face is something magical.” - LPMG

Stick it to wherever you please and ride the “other man” in the threesome simulation, or perform oral on it while your partner penetrates you from behind (aka a spitroast). These are just a couple of suggestions, but take full advantage of experimenting with your extra erect penis in the room.

Benefits of Dildos with Suction Cups

For all the reasons we’ve just outlined above (plus about a trillion more) suction cup dildos are one of the most versatile sex toys. Perfect for playtime across a number of places, dildos with a suction cup stick to almost any surface and can be used in many positions and as part of solo or shared pleasure! The list really is endless.

If you think you’ll run out of ways to use your suction dildo to take you to pleasure town, we’ll tell you you’re dreaming. They’re not just for sticking on the windscreen of your mates car as a gag, or making unicorn horns out of. Using a suction cup dildo both with your bonk buddy and by yourself is a great way to get a little extra mile out of your adult activities (well, technically just another 6-9 inches or so).

Realistic Suction Cup Dildos

Many suction cup dildos are very realistic in the way they look. Complete with veins, a defined head and often realistically coloured, these dildos also have suction cups. Along with making hands-free pleasure easier than drinking water with a straw. Find out a little bit more about our Realistic Dildos to see if they’re the right fit for you.

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Top 8 Customer Favourite Suction Cup Dildos

With so many to choose from, it's hard to know where to start when thinking about jumping on board the suction cup pleasure wagon. This is why we've put together a list of our customers' top faves so you know exactly which one to pick and why.

For the most erotic of fantasies

Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch
(1,147)
$30.95 $42.95 You save: $12.00 (28%)

Always erect and eager to please, this veiny, full-bodied dildo also has a suction cup base for hands-free adventures. Yes please.

What customers say: "The size is just right and the suction cup is the perfect addition for solo play"

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A dildo out to impress

Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo Vibrator 6 Inch
(368)
$34.95 $49.95 You save: $15.00 (30%)

Fully suctioned up and the proud owner of 6 erect inches and bulging balls, this dildo buzzes into action with 10 vibration modes.

What customers say: "The long lead means that she can be in full control of the vibration pattern she likes"

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A firm-yet-flexible friend

BASICS Suction Cup Dildo 6 Inch
(938)
$24.95

A realistic dildo with a generous girth of 5 inches, its suction cup opens up a whole world of hands-free possibilities.

What customers say: "We really enjoyed trying all the different places that this would stick to"

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Get ready for fireworks

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 7 Inch
(340)
$39.95

This dildo is built to please and has one wish only: to seek out your G-spot or P-spot and show off its world-renowned intimate massage skills.

What customers say: "The first thing I noticed about this dildo was how smooth it was to the touch"

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Thrills in all the right places

Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Extra Long Dildo 9 Inch
(129)

With a swollen head, pronounced veins and lifelike balls, this realistic dildo gives the most fun you can have in single digits.

What customers say: "The suction was fab, sticking solidly to most surfaces that I have tried, and it also works really well when using in your hand"

Buy it here

Suction and go for an 'O'

BASICS Suction Cup Dildo 10 Inch
(210)
$36.95

10 uninterrupted inches of insertable length are lying in wait to tease and please your internal pleasure zones with this realistic dildo.

What customers say: "The girth is perfect and the length is great because I can ride it easily"

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A love affair for a lifetime

Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 9 Inch
(197)
$39.95 $54.95 You save: $15.00 (27%)

With its 9 sumptuous inches of sensational realistic shaft, perfectly tapered head and mega strong suction cup, this Lifelike lover will lift you to the heavenly heights of cloud 9.

What customers say: "Let me tell you, it certainly does the trick"

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Time for a new hobby?

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch
(244)
$49.95

This Lifelike Lover features a very manageable 5 insertable inches and a slender shaft, amped up with raised veins and a pronounced head. Step aside, stamp collecting.

What customers say: "It's perfect for beginners like me and it's made of body-safe materials that are easy to clean"

Buy it here

Still Not Sure What Dildo to Choose?

If you’re still not sure if a suction cup dildo is for you, check out our Beginners Guide to Dildos for everything you need to know about the delightful world of dildos. You can also Contact Customer Care, who will be able to help you find the perfect toy for you. Expert chat and email support is available.

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