How to Use a G-Spot Vibrator

We’ve got all the tips for how to use a G-spot vibe, find your G-spot and find the best G-spot vibrator for you.

G’day. Curious about G-spot vibrators? Wonder how you can stimulate your G-spot or your partner's?

We can help you discover the joys of G-spot stimulation, and explain how to use a G-spot vibrator. Discover why this hidden erogenous zone can open up new pleasurable possibilities.

G-spot toys come in a range of different shapes and sizes but all are designed to stimulate the nub of sensitive nerve-endings called the G-spot. The G-spot is actually part of the clitoral network that is within reach inside the front wall of the vagina.

Usually featuring a slightly curved tip to hit the spot, G-spot vibrators can be used on your own or with a partner. The best G-spot vibrator for you is the one that gets you off, so read on to explore your options and then find out how to use a G-spot vibrator.

Feel your way

Start by exploring your vajingo with your fingers to find exactly where your G-spot lies.

The location of this nub varies from person to person. It might help to feel what your vag wall feels like when it is not aroused because as the G-spot gets aroused it can protrude a little and become more sensitive, so there's more chance of finding it when you're toey.

Play with your magic bean and bring yourself to a climax. Then insert a lube-covered finger or two into your vagina, curling them towards your palm in a cum-hither motion once they’re a couple of inches inside you.

Can you feel a fleshy, ridged area that feels different from the rest of the vajingo? Bullseye. Welcome to your G-spot.

Start slowly

When using a G-spot vibrator, we reckon it’s best to start slowly and build up, making sure you’re hot and steamy. Slather your G-spot vibrator in water-based lube and slide it in about 2 inches. Press the shaft head or angled tip against your Mappa Tassie's front wall.

You may want to use a little more pressure than usual or slide your toy from side to side until you hit the right place. When you hit it, girl, trust us you'll know. The spot swells and firms up as it fills with blood - just like your BFF clit. Now you’ve found another part of you to fall in love with.

Finding your G-spot with a partner

If it crosses your mind that you've never had a G-spot orgasm with your partner, it could be because of your bonking position. The G-spot can be elusive when you're doing the mish.

Give some other pozzies a go, like the G-spot faves doggie-style, cowgirl and crossed lovers.

And here’s a treat from using your G-spot toy - when you lavish attention on your G-spot, it's possible to experience female ejaculation - or, as they say, squirt.

Female ejaculation is when a woman releases varying amounts of clear fluid from her urethra at the point of orgasm. It can be anything from a small trickle to a full-on squirt. Either way, it's a sign that you're having a good time, so it’s nothing to worry about. Enjoy your new skill.

Using a G-spot vibrator with a partner

You can use a G-spot toy with your beau in foreplay or during sex.

The Lovehoney G-Slim G-Spot Vibrator is great for foreplay. Unlike a rabbit, this slimline vibe doesn’t have vibrating ears for external stimulation, so your partner can ravish love on your lady button by hand or tongue while the vibrator targets your G-spot. Oh yeah.

The We-Vibe Chorus Remote and App Control Rechargeable Couple's Vibrator gives OMG pleasure to both your juicy jewel and your G-spot during penetrative sex, helping bring you to a Big O. This is the best G-spot vibrator for those who love the intimacy of sex with their partner but need some help achieving orgasm while dancing the mattress mambo.

Which vibrator do I go for?

We’re always keen to help, so here are some suggestions for the best G-spot vibrator for you.



A good first-time toy is the BASICS Powerful Mini G-Spot Vibrator. This honey has 7 speeds and a slim circumference. Start slowly with gentle vibrations, and once you’re onboard the O-train, turn up the power and ride all the way to the fireworks station.



Once you're confident on the G-road, try a G-spot toy with some texture or more vibration speeds and patterns to explore for even more sensual experiences.

The Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Mini Rabbit Vibrator has a curved silicone shaft and powerful vibrations. The curved tip stimulates your G-spot while the rabbit ears go to work on your pretty pistachio. Get ready 'cuz dual sensations on these twin nubs of joy can lead to blended orgasms.

Read on for G-spot toys that will shake your boots...

Fifty Shades Freed Lavish Attention Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator


The Fifty Shades Freed Lavish Attention Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator is one of the most beautiful sex toys we’ve seen.

It’s ultra-soft, slightly flexible and cups the lady cake perfectly. It’s like you get a vulva hug that rumbles vibrations into all your right spots. Terrific design that works a treat.

Use it on your own-some or with your kinky companion. It’s rechargeable and will go as long as you do. Note that, with this G-spot toy, the stimulator massages the clit from left to right - not up or down. Just saying.

Mantric Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator


The Mantric Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator looks like a donger. But it’s magic ‘cuz if you’re playing in the dark you can enjoy the multicoloured LED lights in the base like a disco.

The silicone feels soft and the toy is slightly flexible around the base, which is flared so you can be used for anal play, too. It feels good both inside and around the bod - it can stimulate your paradise slice, inner thighs and nips.

Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrato


This is the big sister of the Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Mini Rabbit Vibrator. Tell you what, you want her on your sex team.

This one is BFF material, that’s for sure.

Enjoy the super soft silicone and the perfect design. Those firm, velvety ears hug your clit like they were born to be there. It’s so good you don’t even need to move the G-spot toy once you switch it on.

It’s one of the quietest G-spot vibes. With the dual motors, you can customise the speed or pattern thrilling your G-spot separately from the speed you want worshipping your love bud. That customer-focused design and ability to customise it to what works for you makes this the best G-spot vibrator for its many fans.

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