Reviews Page 1 - Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit (4 Piece)

So me and my partner haven't really ever used bondage before. However, I thought that it would be fun to try it out, and after reading the other reviews this kit seemed like a good introduction... And it is!

The items in the kit aren't too intimidating, and the quality is really nice (I was actually surprised by how nice it is). The ball gag is probably the most extreme item in this kit. However, it's not enough to put me off.

I would certainly recommend this kit for anyone who wants to try something different!

The restraints: This set is really aesthetically pleasing. A little more luxury than plain black, the overall look is good. Very simple to pop under the bed, you could leave it there and attach the cuffs for play and very easy to travel with to a hotel. The cuffs are comfy and perfect for extended use.

The restraints are adjustable, which is perfect and wasn’t difficult to find the right lengths. They still allow for some wriggling, but I find that’s half the fun.

The gag:

Still pretty but a good sturdy ball, which comes in handy for biting on. Didn’t silence me, more muffled but it worked perfectly. Had to fiddle about for it to sit right and not come loose, but a good gag nonetheless

Blindfold:

Again fully adjustable and really keeps the light out. It’s quite chunky but that makes for total blackout. Comfy to wear and completely removes one of your senses. Perfect for teasing!

Flogger:

I’ve a few and always come back to this one. It’s super soft but still packs a punch. It feels well made and hasn’t shown any signs of wear and tear after quite a lot of play.

To my surprise the wife mentioned during a passionate moment that she would like to try out a spreader bar so we spoke some more and the moment got even hotter.

So straight on LH website the very next morning and just couldn't resist purchasing this bondage set (partly due to the deal we got £35) but especially that it looked like a quality product and of course the reviews helped.

Typical LH plain packaging which we love as to not embarrass the postman. Being newbies into the world of bdsm and only having the chance to use once so far (hoping for a repeat very soon) we cannot really comment much on quality and durability.

We did find that is was easy to use, setup and comfortable. We like that you leave the restraint straps setup hidden from view under the mattress all the cuffs soft lined helping for a more comfortable exerience.

Ball gag;

We found this way to big to fit in our mouths. Our mouths are not small either, but neither in of us could fit it in comfortably. I think newcomers to ball gags may struggle with this one.

Blindfold:

This was very comfortable to wear and looks beautiful. It also shut out all the light, unlike some blindfold we have used.

Flogger:

Yet again it looks beautiful and is not too rough. It is made of a soft material and won't leave lots of marks on you unless you use it with full force. It's just perfect for us as it is just the right amount of pain.

Restraints:

These fit under the mattress of our king size bed. I fitted these in my own as wanted to surprise the wife, but I suggest getting help if you have a heavy mattress. The restraint lengths are adjustable, so I think these would fit in smaller beds also. The soft velcro wrist and arm restraints are attached via a crab claw lock. Which is easily opened for easy release. When all set up they are perfect for leaving your partner spread-eagle and powerless to move.

We would highly recommend this set for any one looking for some bondage in the bedroom.

Wow this bondage set has everything a couple needs to bring excitement into the bedroom. You definitely get what you pay for, the rose gold colour give it an upmarket look whilst the inside of the wrist and ankle straps are coated with a soft and comfortable fabric, leaving your skin free from friction burns. It fits neatly under your mattress. We have a king size and there’s plenty of room.

If that’s not good enough, it comes with a blindfold which has the same soft inner fabric, a whip if your feeling kinky ,and a ball gag if you can’t keep the noise down. This item is permanently under our mattress and we simply pull out the straps whenever we feel like using it, which is all the time.

Sometimes when you buy kits you end up with products that aren't necessarily as good as you'd hoped, or that would have been better bought separately.

But each item in this kit feels well made and luxurious. This probably isn't a set for the hardcore BDSM fan, but for beginners and people who like a bit of softness when they're tied up this set it perfect. It's been a great intro to bondage for us both - me who's more open to it and my wife who I think the softness of the design won over initially.

The rose gold effect on the metal and the soft pink faux leather look really good and soften the overall look when compared to some bondage gear. The quality feel of the set really adds to the experience when using it.

The under-mattress restraint fit under our king size mattress with ease and provides a lot of adjustability. It's definitely something you'd want to leave in place and hide, rather than setting up each time you want to use it. The cuffs are sized appropriately for arms and legs and can be used loose or tight, but either way they are comfy.

The flogger has proved to be a favourite with my wife, as has the ball gag. You can really vary your experience with different combos of items.

The blindfold is well shaped but can ride up in use and it hard to find the best hole. It often seems either too loose or too tight.

This kit was definitely more for me, but we can both enjoy it from either position. The restraints can be tightened to great effect. And the ball gag looks great!

This is a great set to start exploring bondage. As always, trust, consent, and proper education are required before jumping in the deep end! But once you've jumped those hurdles this set is non-threatening and very pleasing to the eye.

It feels quite luxurious; the cuffs and eye mask are lined with a super soft material, and the ball gag is actually quite comfortable.

The colour is really nice; rose gold is so IN this season.

It’s a good kit for people who want to begin bondage as the cuffs are soft and do not hurt my girlfriend's hands. The blindfold covers her eyes when pulled down fully to give the full sensual effect. The ball gag and flogger is a good touch to bring more possibilities into the bedroom like it did with us.

The restraint is secure in itself to keep your partner held down to give extra pleasure for both of us. Personally I find the bed restraint not very complicated to setup, but I’ve found it can get frustrating if your changing locations, but once it’s setup it’s more rewarding.

We hide the restraints already setup under the mattress so all we have to do is pull them out. This kit is one of our best purchases as it’s opened up a whole new side to our sex life.

Where to begin! For disclosure, the item was purchased by my partner under her account and not mine "This is new". Anyway, so how did we end up ordering this bondage kit. Well, I was in work and she sent me a sexy little tease and it drove me wild.

We've been thinking of upgrading our bondage kit for a while "Collection of random gags, blindfolds etc" nothing in one complete kit. So we began to tease each other. I took myself away from my desk and went to the bathroom. We talked and teased over facebook until she asked if we could buy a bondage kit. I said go for it and well she went away and found this little number.

One thing that picked her interest was the colour "rose gold" and how pretty and nice it all looked. Before I could say "buy it" it was already bought and on its way.

By the weekend the item arrived, we waited by the door as we really wanted to use it and, knowing our luck, we would miss the postman and we wouldn't be having any fun until Monday at the earliest... Noooooo.

Thankfully though the postman arrived and we both dived into the box. As always from Lovehoney, the packaging was discreet and in great condition but what was more impressive was the items inside.

Each item was contained in a plastic bag and the moment we saw the rose gold restraints we knew we hit the jackpot. The outer layer of the restraints is a metallic faux leather with a slight sheen and the insides are a faux fur which we knew would make the experience more enjoyable.

My partner then noticed the ballgag and had to try it on, she has a small mouth so every time we have bought a gag or looked for one the size was just too big for her to handle but thankfully the gag was a size that she could handle.

Again the quality here is fantastic, we both reached for the flogger and once again the quality cannot be faulted. We've never used a flogger quite like this one so we were intrigued to get this tested along with the rest of the kit.

After we rummaged through the bondage kit we decided to take it upstairs and get it set up. One thing that made us a little nervous was the 4 piece under-mattress restraint, we placed it on the bed to test and we just looked at each and went "it's too small". Maybe our mattress is too big, but surely it would have said on the website... After a minute of playing around, we realised the straps could be extended "thank the nine". We placed it under the bed, secured each of the 4 straps and we were good to go.

One thing that you will notice with this bondage kit is the quality in the release clasps, there are no cheap, tacky, flimsy clasps involved here. Everything in this product is designed to last.

So what happened next you ask? Well, we decided to get ourselves dressed, she got on her sexy crotchless underwear and fishnets while I got into the boxers and tight fitted clothes she likes to see me in. The anticipation of coming home to our new kinky bedroom and the build-up of seeing each other out and about all the while knowing what we were wearing only intensified the desire to get home.

As the hours went by and the more hands-on we got we decided to go home. The moment the front door closed, I began to take off her clothes and guided her up the stairs to the bedroom. I threw her on the bed and began to lock her into the restraints.

As I locked her in I could tell she was comfortable by the way it felt and by her reactions to it. Now by the time she was fully restrained her eyes were burning with desire. To see her fully restrained to the bed, with her fishnet stockings and crotchless knickers all on display, what can I say, that image will stay with me forever.

Since I like to tease her and now that we have a high-quality blindfold we needed to remove one of her senses this way she can focus more on the sounds, smells and physical interactions that were to come. Also when worn it looks incredibly sexy. "Who knew I loved rose gold, not me".

As she lay there, blindfolded, legs and arms restrained, I grabbed the flogger and began to tease it across her body, letting her body squirm and move to the tassels strokes. I began to flick her body and then the moaning began. I teased her breasts and nipples with the tassels picking up speed and impact.

After a while, I knew it was time to put down the flogger and truly dive into my captive and boy was I right.

Best investment we've made. So we have been using this lovely kit for about a month now but fell in love the first night really. I dig being tied up and it was fair enough on the partner's bed as he has slots in his headboard but then I don't so got this kit as a way to fulfil the feeling at mine.

The cuffs are fully locked on the straps with latch locks and cuffs close round wrists with Velcro. Very lovely material on the inner cuff for maximum wrist comfort and the outer pink is just lovely was told it added to the view so all round pleasing. Very durable and strong cuffs.

The gag is nice comfortable size, doesn't have chemical smell or taste. The back of straps doesn't irritate the head which is good too. The eye mask is so so soft on the face we look forward to using it. Fits on so gently and you forget it's on. The leather tickler is nice good weight in the handle nice snap on the skin as well as gentle tickle when dragged over skin too.

Would overall say worth every penny, love how it looks and feels overall 10/10. Great wee starter pack or present for that special someone. Would recommend to all.

Best £60 I’ve spent. Both my partner and I have enjoyed this kit a lot (was a definite improvement compared to using whatever ribbons and ties we had); very good quality and well worth the money.

Only downside was probably the colour - black would have been preferred - but it doesn’t matter. Very happy with this.

I thought I would try something a little different, this is amazing, fits on both of our beds due to the adjustable size. The straps are strong enough to keep a strong man down (and make him do anything you want).

PS It drives all men wild when you take charge, and this is the perfect set to do it.

This Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit really is awesome! The colour of this set is beautiful, it is a soft rose/gold that has a subtle shimmer to it - and really is stunning!

There are 6 pieces to this set, so I will go through each part of this incredible set one by one.

Blindfold:

This is a fantastic blindfold! The inside of the blindfold has super soft black velour material which feels amazing. The blindfold is shaped really well and blocks almost all the light - which is a huge plus for me, as many blindfolds that I have tried always let in some light - but this one is really good. I think that this may be because it is such a great shape, and also the velour sits nice and close to your face.

The blindfold secures with a buckle which is a step up from an elasticated strap - and makes the whole process of having it put on feel more exciting. This also makes it very easily adjustable for most head sizes.

Ball Gag:

I have to say that I really love this gag. Is extremely well made, and there is absolutely no horrible taste to the ball at all.

If you are new to ball gags - please bear in mind that the ball in this gag is solid and not breathable.

The size of the ball is perfect for me - not too small - but not huge. It actually feels very comfortable once it is in your mouth and the straps are also very comfortable on your face as it has the same super soft black velour lining. There were plenty of holes for the buckle too, so this would suit almost any size head.

I love how vulnerable I feel when wearing this - especially when using the cuffs and blindfold together - it really just adds to the excitement!

Flogger:

The flogger is really cute, and measures 15 ½ inches in length, of which the handle is 6 inches; it has a comfortable and lightweight handle, again in the same matching rose/gold satin design and with rose gold stud detail on the handle. There is also a hanging loop, which is very useful for storage. The fronds are super soft, and I loved how sensual this flogger felt when being stroked over my skin. It’s great as a warm up flogger, but it also can create anything from the gentlest caress, to a medium sting.

Under Bed Restraint Straps and Cuffs:

Again, another great design. You get both ankle and wrist cuffs in this set. The quality of these cuffs are top-notch, they really do look and feel so luxurious. The cuffs are made from the same soft rose/gold satin material on the outside with the same smooth ‘velvet like’ lining, which makes them soft and comfortable when wearing, even for extended time periods. They look really classy when fastened around your wrists too - a perfect blend of form AND function!

The sizing is great. I have quite small wrists and ankles, and have had trouble with cuffs in the past being way too big and ending up not fitting correctly, but these fitted me perfectly due to the easy Velcro fastening. Each cuff has a gorgeous rose gold D-ring, which attaches to the under-bed restraint system.

Depending on the weight of your mattress, it may take a second person to help get the straps in place and nicely lined up - but once in place you can easily leave it there and just tuck the straps away out of sight until next time. The quick-release lobster clasps are also made from rose gold hardware, look great, are very sturdy and well made too.

Each strap is fully adjustable, so you can ensure the perfect length for each wrist/ankle and the straps fit up to a King Size bed, which we have, and it’s perfect!

Summary:

This really is a beautiful bondage set which would be suitable for all levels of users from beginners through to advanced. My Husband said that the whole set looked amazing on me, and it was so lovely to have a matching set. The colour is gorgeous, and I love the rose gold hardware which makes it look so expensive. All of the pieces are luxurious, comfortable, strong, and really built to last!

Just to start with a disclaimer: we bought this with my partner from a different account, not mine.

Anyway, I just want to say how amazing an investment this turned out to be! The moment I clicked "purchase" I was sitting at the door waiting for it to show up. It was our first actual bondage kit, so naturally we were both very excited (although I think I was a bit more giddy than he was).

As per usual, the product came the next day in a subtle packaging, which is very useful considering that I live with five very curious flatmates.

From there on I took it to my room and went 'kid on Christmas' on it, tearing through the easy to open box. The first thing I noticed, to my dismay, way that the colour was a lot darker than in the picture. I was expecting a pretty rose gold colour, but instead I got a sort of metallic burgundy. I also didn’t like the way the flogger looked and felt so I decided to leave that behind for another time.

Moving on, I decided to see whether the cuffs would actually fit me. I’m a very petite person, so restraints being too big on me isn’t something new. To my surprise, the cuffs actually fit me perfectly! With even some more ways to go, to make them extra tight.

Once we got it to the bedroom, the straps easily adjusted around the bed. We noticed the cuffs were actually really soft on the inside. We’ve used ropes before and unfortunately it always ended in either really bad bruises or easily getting untied, so the firm but soft grasp of this bondage set was a warm welcome. Both me and my partner were a little sceptical on whether or not the velcro will hold, but no matter how much we pulled and struggled it wouldn’t budge.

The gag and blindfold were such a treat too! The blindfold feels soft and delicate on the skin, while still blocking out light and vision perfectly. The ball gag easily fit in my mouth, and the first thing I noticed was that the material wasn’t too hard, which made it easy for me to bite down on. Once I took it out, I was astonished to see it didn’t have any bite marks on it! After an hour of me actively biting down on it like a chew toy it still looked brand new! Blew my mind, honestly.

Overall, we had a great experience using this set! The cuffs are soft and easily adjustable, while the gag and blindfold are great for adding that extra spice to the bedroom without being too harsh. Would a 100% recommend getting this!

First of all excellent value for money. 5 star. Well made and very comfy to wear, especially after experimenting with cable ties beforehand which my partner brought home from work.

I really enjoy using these bed restraints so much so they stay on the bed permanently and are frequently used. New to bondage, wasn't sure about the mouth gag to begin with but after using a couple times quite enjoyed it. Sometimes having something to bite down on really does the trick. The only downside is I struggle to keep this on even with the tightest setting.

Blindfold is standard, very comfy as well. Once again, same as the gag, the buckle at the back doesn't always stay in place. Overall very pleased with the set and would recommend.