Top Tips for Sexual Satisfaction (if You're on the Small Side)

by Audrey Andrews

on May 8, 2019

Top Tips for Sexual Satisfaction (if You're On the Small Side)

Sex can be fun regardless of size, and here are some top tips for getting it on if you’re on the small side.

‘Bigger is better’ is a cliché, but so is ‘good things come in small packages’.

We’re often told that a bigger dick means greater sexual satisfaction, but that’s just BS. There’s no connection between sexual enjoyment and the size of your wang, according to a 2015 study published in the British Journal of Urology.

But, if you blokes are concerned about your size, here’s our top tips to help you maximise your ability to give and receive pleasure.

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Position pointers

Doggie Style Position and Tips

Doggie Style

Doggie style is a great choice for anyone with a smaller dong.

It delivers deep penetration, which is sensational for both of you. Ask your bonking buddy to spread their knees wide apart - that gets you all in. Check that it’s working for both of you and off you go on the Big O-train to the fireworks.

Missionary Anal Position and Tips

Missionary Anal

A lot of sexy folk love a smaller doodle for butt play. It’s more comfy but still oodles of fun.

Get ready for anal sex with a ton of rump foreplay and lubricant.

Use your fingers or butt toys like butt plugs or anal beads as a 'warm up'.

A pillow under your playmate can achieve the best angle of the dangle for anal insertion.

Elevated Reverse Cowgirl Position and Tips

Elevated Reverse Cowgirl

Here’s a simple twist on a classic position. The penetrator lies down with a pillow under their hips. This heightens the penetration for the penetratee when they straddle their sidekick as they face away from them.

Bonus: the great view of your lover's booty, and their freedom to move around easily to find the most enjoyable angle, is a win/win for all.

Missionary Position and Tips

Modified Missionary Position

Start with normal mish, with the penetrator on top and in between the legs of the partner. After a few thrusts to start the engines, the penetrator should lower their legs down and the penetratee can raise their knees either side of their kinky companion.

The effect? A tighter squeeze around the old fella, and more pleasurable pressure on the Mappa Tassie is one is involved. Happy days.

The Dancer Position and Tips

The Split

Here the penetratee lies down with one leg straight out along the floor or bed. The penetrator kneels between the penetratee’s legs and they extend their other leg so it rests on the penetrator's shoulder.

Now the penetrator can hold that leg for balance as they thrust.

The partner can also bend their leg and rest their foot on the other thruster’s chest. Oh yeah.

Tips and Toys

Don't get so wrapped up in your wedding tackle that you forget that value of your hands and tongue. Your fingers have more flexibility and dexterity than your John Thomas ever will - whatever your size. Oral sex can deliver a ton of pleasure no matter what size your donger is.

But if you want to wield a bigger sword, there are a stack of sex toys out there that are designed to do just that.

Cock Rings

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Penis pumps

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Extenders and strap-ons

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So now you’re armed with some extra tasty tips, but remember that confidence is the sexiest thing you can bring to the bedroom. Love your schlong and be kind to it - it’s the only one you’ve got.

Audrey Andrews is a student blogger for Lovehoney. In her spare time she loves to do craft, but would not advise knitting your own condoms.

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Written by Audrey Andrews.

Originally published on May 8, 2019. Updated on Aug 6, 2020