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  1. Alix Fox for The Lovehoney Head Board

    In this Head Board article, we’re getting to the – ahem – bottom of the question, “If I’m a man who likes anal play, does that mean I’m gay?”.

    Here to offer answers is award-winning journalist and sex educator Alix Fox, co-host of BBC Radio 1’s real-life comedy sex stories show, Unexpected Fluids, and resident X-rated agony aunt on The Modern Mann podcast.

    Alix is also a proud Ambassador for young people’s sexual health charity Brook, so when it comes to bums, you know she’s not talking out of her arse.

    OK, my Puzzled-About-Posterior-Play Posse, let’s have a conversation about anal stimulation! I’m going to break this question down into easily digestible parts. Starting with…

    Speedy Tips For Satisfying Quickies

    For some people, juggling coursework, a job, social life, and general life admin means you don't always have time for sex.

    If you are regularly forced to choose between fighting your family or friends for the bathroom, or missing the bus, having morning sex may seem impossible.

    And the same goes for evenings. You already have housework, reports, and coursework coming out of your butt, you certainly don’t have time to be putting anal beads up there, too. Right?

    Wrong!

    Sex doesn't have to come to a screaming halt just because we have busy schedules. The screaming and the orgasms just have to happen faster, so read on if you want to master The Quickie.

    Sex Lubes: they're awesome.

    Adding lube to sexy playtime is one of the simplest ways to bring something new to the bedroom. They improve glide, enhance sensation and can even enable play that's otherwise not possible, such as anal sex or sex in the shower.

    But, with so many lubes to choose from, it can be tricky knowing which lube is safe to use alongside which products. For example, did you know that you should never use silicone lube with a silicone sex toy?

    Or that water-based lubes won't work in the shower?

    In this week's video, Jess and Sammi give you the lowdown on lubes so you know the key differences between them, and can make any play super-slippery with the correct lubricant.

    Why are rabbit vibrators so popular? And what is a blended orgasm anyway?

    In this weeks video, we answer these questions, and tell you about the magical, climax-inducing power of the world-famous sex toy that is: The rabbit vibrator.

    Plus, Jess and Sammi give you a closer look at the brand new, reinvented Happy Rabbit.

    Last week, we told you all about what condoms are, and how to tell if your condom is safe for use.

    This week we're back with Condoms 101 - Part 2!

    When used correctly, condoms offer an impressive 98% success rate, but in order to be properly protected, you need to know what you're doing.

    In this weeks video, Jess and Sammi show you exactly how to open, wear, remove and dispose of your condom properly for the best protection.

    What is a condom? And why are they so popular for ensuring safe sex?

    Well, firstly, barrier methods of contraception (which is what a condom is) are the only type of contraception that protects you and your partner from STI's as well as unwanted pregnancy.

    When used correctly, they offer an astonishing 98% success rate, but in order to be properly protected, you need to know what you're doing.

    In this weeks video, Jess and Sammi give you the lowdown on latex (and non-latex) love-gloves, condom-friendly lubes and everything else you need to know before putting one on.

    Come back next week for part 2, when we show you exactly how to put a condom on (properly!)

    How Normal Are My Sexual Fantasies

    Imagine being in a shop with a friend, choosing a bag of crisps. You go for ready salted, they opt for salt and vinegar. Is one of you a weirdo? Of course not.

    Just like our choice in crisp flavours, our turn-ons vary massively from person to person. After all, if we all liked exactly the same things, what a boring world this would be.

    The same goes for sexual fantasies. If we all had the same sexual fantasies, sex wouldn't be half as exciting and invigorating.

    We wouldn't be intrigued by anything new, we wouldn't ever be surprised by our partners, and there would be nothing about our own sexualities to discover and explore.

    So if you're concerned about what your secret fantasy says about you, we're here to put your mind at rest.

    How can I discuss polyamory with my partner

    Polyamory – the desire, practice or acceptance of maintaining more than one intimate relationship concurrently with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved – is coming more and more into mainstream consciousness. Sex blogger, sex educator and adult product reviewer Amy Norton weighs in on how to talk to your partner about an open relationship.

    So you think you might want to be polyamorous, but you're already in an existing relationship?

    The hard truth is that the transition from monogamy to non-monogamy is often difficult and requires a lot of work from everyone involved.

    The good news is that, with communication, commitment, compassion and a hefty dose of patience, it's entirely doable! If you're reading this, I assume it's because you want to know how to broach this potentially fraught subject with your partner.

    A question we get asked a LOT at Lovehoney is "how can I make my penis bigger?"

    Now, we like to remind people that bigger doesn't necessarily mean better, and it's often better to learn some tips and tricks to use what nature gave you.

    There's a lot of truth to the old saying "it's not the size, but what you do with it that counts".

    But for those penis-owning people out there who want to boost the size of their boner, there are several ways of doing so, for both short and long term gains.

    If you hunt around the internet (or have a peep in your junk emails, for that matter!) you'll trip over dozens of ways to increase the size of your penis.

    However not all of these methods are particularly safe or reliable (bee stings anyone?!) and some can even lead to shrinkage later in life, so it's really important you do your research and choose a safe way to magnify your meat flute.

    In this weeks video guide, Jess and Annabelle tell you 4 sure-fire ways to do exactly that!

    8 Festival Friendly Sex Toys

    Festival season is upon us and you know what that means – time to get muddy and sweaty with strangers in a random field for a few days, while learning to appreciate anew the wonders of indoor plumbing.

    But being at a festival doesn’t mean you have to leave all your sexy fun behind. In fact, festivals can be a great place to get it on, whether it's with an existing partner or just that guy you got talking to at the phone charging station.

    We’ve put together a list of sex toys and other goodies that are above all discreet, lightweight and low-maintenance so you still can enjoy all the comforts of amazing sex without weighing down your backpack too much.

    Got any other festival sex toy suggestions? Let us know in the comments below.

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