1. Valentine's Day: love it or hate it, it's happening on the 14th of February.

    Now, we believe that being romantic shouldn't be limited to just one day, but who doesn't love an extra excuse to get sexy with a friend? (And yes, that friend can absolutely be yourself!)

    In this weeks YouTube video, Jess and Roy are looking at some of their favourite sex toy gifts for Valentine's Day, as well as some unique ways to present them to you lover.

    Think we missed a trick? Come back next week for part 2 where we come up with even more inventive ways to surprise your Valentine this year.

    SingleMansSexualSelfCareGuide

    With all the other things going on in our lives - work, family, socialising, and not to mention sleeping - it can be easy to let taking care of your sexual self slide.

    But just like skincare, haircare, eating right, and exercising, sexual self-care is important to keep yourself happy and healthy.

    So whether you decide to treat yourself to some brand-spanking new sex toys for men or get stuck into some new reading material, here are 5 ways to fit in some very special 'you time', and really up your sexual satisfaction.

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    With all the other things going on in our lives - work, family, socialising, and not to mention sleeping - it can be easy to let taking care of your sexual self slide.

    But just like skincare, haircare, eating right, and exercising, sexual self-care is important to keep yourself happy and healthy.

    So whether you decide to treat yourself to a brand-spanking new vibrator or get stuck into some new reading material, here are 5 ways to fit in some very special 'you time', and really up your sexual satisfaction.

    Which is the Best Anal Toy for People with Vaginas?

    Lovehoney needed someone with a vagina to try a variety of anal toys, so being the selfless individual that I am, I volunteered. I know, I know, it’s a bit of bummer but don’t worry, it’s all behind me now.

    Jokes aside, I loved trying out these four new toys. Ok, they’re not ‘new’ per se, but all were new to me.

    I haven’t had much experience with anal play or anal sex. This isn’t because I don’t want to take part in this fantastic form of fornication, quite the contrary.

    I’m singing from the same hymn sheet as Community’s Troy Barnes.

    I’m just content to move at my own pace, and that’s ok. I’m not ashamed of my beginner’s bum. In a way, being an anal novice gave me the edge in this task.

    I approached everything from a fresh perspective, and I’ve now determined which of the following is the best anal toy for people with vaginas.

    Position of the week: The Mermaid

    How to Combine Sex and Mindfulness

    We’ve all had mindless sex at some point. I’m talking about the drift into mind-wandering that can happen during some of our greatest pleasures, consciously or subconsciously.

    From picturing your favourite porn scene or delectable fantasy, to dealing with anxiety ridden evaluations of our bodies or performance, to fearing contraception failure, or your neighbours overhearing through your paper thin walls.

    There are hundreds of opportunities for your mind to wander away from what’s happening in front of you, or to you.

    I’m pretty much a stranger to mindfulness.

    In fact, when trying to learn about what it was, I watched a video on x2 playback to take in the information more quickly. Ironic, huh?

    From what I’ve learnt, I think that mindfulness could be the answer to those mid-sex distractions.

    The thoughts will still appear, but rather than allowing them to absorb us completely, we can use mindfulness to bring us back into the zone to connect with ourselves, our sexual partner(s) and ultimately, experience more pleasure.

    Position of the week: The Pillar

    How to Boost Your Sex Drive

    Do you enjoy having sex but find that you’re not often in the mood to initiate?

    Do you wish you could get aroused more easily or desire your partner more often?

    Put your seatbelts on because we’re going on a quick tour around the sex drive.

    Sex drive or libido is basically how much or often someone desires sexual activity. It varies from person to person and there’s no such thing as a “normal” sex drive because everyone is different!

    There’s nothing wrong with a lower sex drive as long as you’re happy, but if you decide you’d like to increase your sex drive there are a number of simple methods you can try.

    Here’s my list of the best lifestyle changes you can make to put that sex drive into overdrive.

    Position of the week: Jigsaw

    Just in case you've been living in a hole for the past 3 year and missed the memo: Lovehoney (that's us!) make sex toy videos and post them on YouTube every Friday!

    We make our sex vlogs to help you get the most from your sex life (and sex toys!) and help you make the best decisions when shopping.

    We also love it when you get involved and comment on our videos... In fact, we actively encourage you to ask us questions and share your thoughts.

    In this weeks video, we're going through some of your comments and answering the most frequently asked sex and sex toy questions.

    Got a burning query you think we missed? Comment on the blog, or head over to YouTube and tell us!

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