For most of us, regardless of gender, trying to have more than one orgasm is about as easy as finding the motivation to start work for tomorrow’s deadline. Much like academic motivation, it’s something we all dream about but doubt we can ever experience.
I used to think that multiple orgasms (especially for women) were a bit of a myth. And to be honest, I thought it was just something they showed in porn films to make the action last longer.
However, I am (very) pleased to say that I was wrong: they are not a myth! Regardless of your gender, there are a variety of different techniques, toys and positions you can try to achieve that ‘ooh’ feeling more than once.
Tried and tested by myself, keep reading for my top tips on having that big finish again and again.
It’s a comedic trope that we’ve all seen before – the fake orgasm.
Some argue that Meg Ryan’s infamous diner scene in “When Harry Met Sally” takes the cake, but my personal favourite has to be when Elaine comes clean about her orgasms in “Seinfeld”.
The fake orgasm is a simple gag that gets an easy laugh from a television audience. The reality is that the motivating factors for faking an orgasm are far more complex.
So what counts as a fake orgasm? Why do people do it? And how, once you've started, do you stop doing it?
Well, the answers may not be what you would expect...
Whether you prefer vanilla sex, or something a little more daring, there is always room for a bit more experimentation.
Of course it's great to know what you like and dislike, but far too many people fall into the trap of finding a routine that works for them and never mixing it up.
Some of the best sexual experiences you will ever have will be as a result of being bold and trying new things.
The thought of something going disastrously wrong may be off-putting at first, but if you and your partner share a positive attitude then you both stand to have a great time.
With that in mind, here is our list of 3 fab kinks and why you need to try them.
It may not be Black Friday until November 24th, but at Lovehoney, we've decided to spoil you with TWO ENTIRE WEEKS of mega savings.
Our bonkers (or should that be bonkingly good) discounts are only available for a limited time, so if you see it's on offer today, make sure that you snap it up, because it might not be here tomorrow.
But if you want to catch the greatest Black Friday deals before they're all gone, don't worry - our sales spies have had a sneak peek at what's to come, and whipped up this handy cheat sheet that shows not only our best offers, but when you can grab them.
Check back every day this week for even more jaw-dropping price cuts.
Nothing brings romance to the festive season quite like unwrapping lingerie from a loved one, and our super luxe new collection, Moonlight, is bound to set pulses racing, whether you’re giving or receiving.
Moonlight is the perfect combination of sophisticated and sexy, with shimmering wine-coloured satin, ruffles, ribbons and delicate scallop lace.
Such a curve-worshiping collection should be shown off in style, and who better to model it than Ashley Alexiss, passionate advocate of the Body Positivity movement.
A US size 14, Ashley, 26, has become a modelling sensation, gaining 1.2 million Instagram followers and modelling for a number of big brands.
Ashley says: "It was great to finally wear something that fit my curves and accentuated them to really make me feel my sexiest. "Women will be able to look at themselves in the mirror and think 'Damn - I'm hot!'
Moonlight comes in sizes Small to 4X and is available now!
Shopping for someone who deserves something extra special? Look no further.
To indulge your lover with the most coveted vibrators, lingerie, bondage accessories and much, much more, look at our pick of the very finest luxury gifts for him, her and to share. Perfect for Valentine's Day, Christmas, and just because.
One of the most versatile sex toys out there, suction cup dildos stick to almost any smooth, flat surface for playtime in a number of places, many positions and as part of solo or shared pleasure.
Stick your suction cup dildo to your shower wall, toilet seat or mirror, simulate a threesome with your partner (minus the extra person in the room) or strap it on. The list really is endless.
With so many to choose from, it's hard to know where to start when thinking about jumping on board the suction cup pleasure wagon. This is why we've put together a list of our customers' top faves so you know exactly which one to pick and why.
So, Universal Studios have finally released the official Fifty Shades Freed trailer, and we'd be lying if we said it hadn't got all of us at Lovehoney whipped (ahem) into a frenzy of excitement.
Of course, we've already watched it dozens of times, and we have a few hunches as to what to expect when the third (and final, sob) instalment in the trilogy lands in February.
Here are 8 things that caught our eye in the new trailer – don't forget to tell us which bits you're most excited about!
If you're reading this, you're undoubtedly already at least familiar with the basics of sex toys.
Chances are that you already have one or two firm favourites nestled away, whether hidden in a sock drawer or proudly out on display (seriously, some of those glass dildos are gorgeous).
Whatever your situation, it's pretty easy to slip into the habit of having your chosen couple of sex toys and not really ever venturing out from there.
After all, if it works, why change it? Well, that's what we're here to tell you.
Here are the top 4 reasons you should try a new sex toy!
Sex toys are wonderful things in far more ways than may immediately spring to mind.
The sheer variety available is especially noteworthy, and with the quantity of categories of toy and the level of variation within each of these categories, there really is something for everyone.
That said, can it ever be too much of a good thing?
That's where this post comes in - to help you navigate through the weird and wonderful world of sex toys to the essential few every man should own.
They're not the be all and end all of the sex toy world, but with these to hand you'll have a great starting point from which to branch out into whatever toys appeal to you specifically the most.