1. 11 Orgasmic Ways to Supercharge Your Sex Life With a Magic Wand


    If you’ve not yet got your hands on a wand, there’s time! Head on over to our top 10 guide to find out which wand is best for you.

    If you are the proud owner of a powerful magic wand, congratulations. We’re sure you’ve powered it up and played with all the settings, but do you know how to use it to its full potential?

    We’ve put together a handy guide to help you soar to orgasmic heights with your toy, time after time.

    Lovehoney Delight Extra Silky Water-Based Lubricant 100ml

    1. Always use with lube

    Lube, glorious lube... It's no secret that we love the slippery stuff.

    A generous squeeze of lube on the head of your wand seriously enhances sensations, so grab a bottle of our Lovehoney Delight Extra Silky Water-Based Lubricant and glide your way to orgasm.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "My main love for the Delight lube has got to be that it lasts longer than water-based lubes, far less reapplication. It's also non sticky, vegan friendly and can be used with latex condoms." - Purring-Pussy


    2. Release some tension

    Turn your wand to its lowest setting and gently stroke it over your shoulders and back in a slow, circular motion for a sublime, deep tissue massage that might just lead to other things.

    Aaaand, relax.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "It works as a full body massager, which is really nice after a hard day at the gym. It makes all those tense and sore muscles better, and makes my body very relaxed." - LilMissMardyBum

    Lovehoney Mains Powered Classic Metallic Magic Wand

    3. Start slowly

    Plug-in wands can pack a hefty punch when it comes to vibrations.

    If it's the first time you've used one, start on the lower settings and, once you're used to them, build your way up to the bigger thrills.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "This was one of my first sex toys! And don't think I need anymore. Like this takes you to another level of pleasure. I had my first squirt with one of these magical wands as I call them." - Thedaughterofshylock

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    4. Elevate tie and tease play

    Use your wand as part of your foreplay, trailing it over sensitive spots to work yourselves into a frenzy.

    Add a blindfold or handcuffs to the mix and take turns to tease one another with the vibrations.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "We use it for massages and throughout foreplay. Not only does it feel amazing on every part of the female body, my husband seemed to enjoy it around his balls... it's very easy to keep edging your self or your partner making hours worth of fun and enjoyment!" - kinkysum

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    5. Experiment with materials

    For a gentle, nuzzling buzz, reduce your wand's intensity by using it over underwear or bedsheets.

    Experiment – silk, satin and cotton will all offer different sensations.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "I'd say if you're finding the vibes overwhelming, try using it over your clothes until you get more used to it. At first I found it almost painful to put directly on my clitoris, so I use it all around that area instead (it's actually really good rubbed against your vagina, the vibes travel all the way inside you)!" - Boogaloo

    Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Silicone G-Spot Head Attachment

    6. Add an attachment

    Turn your wand into a G-spot-pleasuring toy or vibrating penis stroker by adding a special attachment.

    Take a look at our comprehensive guide for tips on choosing the right accessories for your massage wand.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "If you've ever wished your wand could be just as powerful but more pinpointed towards your g-spot, your clitoris or indeed both at the same time, this attachment could be your dream come true." - Lovebirds_x


    7. Go hands-free

    Go hands-free by sliding the handle of your wand between a pillow and pillow case, angling it so that it hits the right spots.

    Or, try a position enhancer like the Liberator BonBon Toy Mount, which has slots for different toys.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "No more squat balancing doing vigorous circular movements with my arms in an effort to stay upright whilst lining everything up. The BonBon makes masturbating a whole lot easier." - Couple looking to spice things up

    Lovehoney 3-Speed Micro Magic Wand Vibrator

    8. Explore other areas

    Use the wand on your thighs, stomach and mons venus rather than directly on your intimate areas.

    The wand will transmit vibrations throughout the entire area, giving you a slow-building, intense orgasm.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "The head is really flexible making it easy to bend into any position needed. Because of its size, it doesn't get in the way during intercourse." - Jacktar

    Lovehoney Deluxe Extra Powerful Mains Powered Magic Wand Vibrator

    9. Use it on him

    A wand feels great on the shaft of the penis – add plenty of lube and slide it gently up and down the length.

    For delicate areas like the balls and frenulum, you might prefer a less powerful setting, a mini wand or an attachment.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "We used the wand in a rubbing motion, on the frenulum (bottom side of the head) and it gets me erect within seconds and within 2 minutes I cum hard." - horny-youngcouple, 23M, 31F


    10. Make sex even better

    Whether you're getting it on missionary style or bending yourself into pretzel-like positions, your wand's ergonomic shape makes it easy to add to your play.

    Use it to stimulate your clitoris when you're in spoons or, if you're in a female-female couple, hold it between you to share the vibes.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "My partner loves our wand (we have the Doxy, it is superb) as when I'm holding it against my clit he can feel the vibrations inside me and if we go slow then it does fun stuff to his balls and bit of shaft when its outside my body." - Spoonerism

    Tracey Cox Supersex 10 Function Silicone Wand Vibrator

    11. Take it on holiday

    Your plug-in wand may not leave much room in your suitcase for flipflops and suncream, so get yourself a mini battery-powered or USB-rechargeable wand you can use anywhere in the world.

    The Tracey Cox Supersex 10 Function Silicone Wand, Lovehoney 8 Function Mini Magic Wand and the Lovehoney USB Rechargeable Mini Magic Wand are all powerful and portable, while the Mantric USB Rechargeable Wand Vibrator has a travel lock, so no blush-inducing buzzes when you're going through passport control.

    What Lovehoney customers say:

    "Was surprised how light in weight it is. It's very compact and would be easy to slip in your handbag and take on weekends away." - Robbieswife

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