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  1. How to Use a Large Dildo

    When you first look at Belladonna's Bitch Fist Dildo, one of two things will come to mind:

    Reaction A - Ouch!
    Reaction B - Wow that looks fun!

    The large length and girth can be very intimidating to those who are new to sex toys, but it can also be very pleasurable, satisfying you in a way no other dildo can.



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    A step-by-step guide to using a large dildo

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    1. Clean your dildo

    Even if it's brand new, you should still give your dildo a thorough wash in hot water or use a sex toy cleaner before you use it.

    Your large dildo is going to be delving in to your deepest internal regions and a good clean will ensure that your experience is safe, hygienic and healthy.


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    2. Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate!

    The size and shape of your sex toy will determine what kind of lubricant you should use. It is best to choose a lube that is thick and smooth, like Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant.

    If you're planning on inserting your dildo anally, we reccomend a thick, longlasting silicone lubricant that's you won't need to keep applying, like pjur Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant.

    For fist dildos, Fist-It Extra Thick Water-Based Anal Fisting Lubricant is a long-lasting, thick water-based anal lubricant.


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    3. Gentle, now!

    If you're new to large toys, start with something smaller first, and work your way up.

    Large dildos can be difficult to insert at first, so take it slowly and get into positions that allow you to spread your body out.

    Try lying on your back with a pillow under your bottom, with your legs raised and spread. Alternatively, you may prefer to squat down over the dildo to have more control of the depth.


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    4. Go forth, intrepid explorer!

    Once you've got past the widest part of the dildo, your body should be more relaxed, which allows you to explore the sensations in your own time.

    Some people like to twist the dildo inside them to stimulate all the internal erogenous zones, while others prefer to thrust in and out.

    Experiment to find out what you prefer - just remember to go slow and steady.


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    5. What about fisting dildos?

    As the name suggests, fist dildos are sex toys based on the shape of a fist, and some are even modelled on real hands.

    Some are shaped like clenched fists, like Doc Johnson's Belladonna's Bitch Fist, while many others are angled into a pointed shape, fingers first, for easier penetration, such as the Doc Johnson Belladonna's Magic Hand Dildo.

    Fist dildos provide a 'full-up' sensation that stimulates your internal walls, and provide a feeling of being stretched, which is a fantasy for many.


    Safety first

    If you're using your large dildo sensibly you shouldn't run into any problems.

    However, never rush into things without foreplay or warm-up, as you could damage yourself.

    Go slowly, build up with smaller toys first, and use lots of lubricant (both on yourself and the dildo). Pay close attention to what your body is telling you, and you should be able to enjoy every inch of your massive sex toy with ease.

    If you start to feel any pain or discomfort, stop.

    When buying a large dildo for you or your partner, it's important to remember that bodies have their limits, and you or they might not be able to manage a large dildo, especially vaginally - there's only so far it can go!

    Many people worry that using large dildos will stretch them permanently, leaving them 'loose'. However, your body's natural elasticity will prevent this from happening and you will regain the tightness in your muscles just a day or two after having fun with your dildo.

    All of this advice also applies to fisting with a real human fist, however remember to remove any jewellery that might hurt your partner. For more tips, take a look at Jess Wilde's guide to fisting below.



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